There are SO many things to consider before you adopt a dog. As someone who has done it - and at times regretted it, here are my honest realities (and joys!) of welcoming a rescue dog into your life...
*Before we go any further, it's important to note that whilst rescue dogs can be the most wonderful and rewarding additions to your life, some wonderful adopters are not so lucky with their new companions and can get dogs who have separation anxiety, fear-based reactivity and so much more. Some of the considerations below may apply to your dog and not others and vice versa. These are general considerations.*
1. Committing your time and changing your lifestyle
Consider your daily routine and habits. And then figure out how much of that you are willing to give up to dedicate to a dog. Dogs are hugely social creatures that require love and attention, exercise, and mental stimulation. If you're frequently away from home for extended periods due to work or travelling, reflect on whether you have the time to take your dog for walks, engage in playtime, and offer companionship.
2. Your family dynamics
Whilst your dog may be your firstborn child, are you planning to have or introduce children into your family unit? If so, it's crucial to select a dog who has been tested with children. Some breeds are even known for their compatibility with kids being naturally gentle and patient with children, while others might be more reserved or possess high energy levels that need careful management around young children.
3. Responsibilities of the financial kind
Owning a dog is a HUGE financial commitment beyond basic food and supplies. Vet visits, vaccinations, grooming, training classes, travel costs, boarding or sitting, and unforeseen medical expenses are all part of the equation. It's important to consider whether your monthly budget can accommodate these costs and be prepared for potential emergencies.
4. Having space to breath (and run and play)
Do you reside in a third floor flat or are you lucky enough to have a house with a garden? Different breeds have varying space requirements. Some dogs can thrive in smaller living spaces as long as they receive ample exercise, while others might need more room to roam. Your living situation should align with the needs of your chosen dog breed.
5. Training and socialisation for you both
Whilst we all have dreams of having the perfect pub dog, it's important to understand that rescue dogs need proper training and socialisation to become well-adjusted companions. Time, funds and effort on your part is a must. If you're a first-time dog owner, consider whether you're willing and able to invest in training classes or expert help to ensure your dog becomes a well-mannered and obedient member of your family.
6. A lifelong commitment
Dogs have relatively long lifespans, often a decade or more, rescue dogs are known to made of tough stuff! This is a hugely long-term commitment that involves adapting to changes in your life, such as relocations, job shifts, and alterations in family dynamics. Before adopting, think about whether you're prepared to go through house moves, relationship changes and still maintain the well-being of your animal.
7. Energy Levels compatibility
Do you really like long walks on the beach or does it just say that on your dating profile? It's so important to consider your own activity level and lifestyle. Sure, there are certain breeds that are highly energetic and require vigorous exercise, but there are others that are relaxed. It's important to be matched with a dog whose energy levels match your own, so you can both enjoy activities together.
8. Being patient and adaptable
Dogs, especially those from shelters or rescues, may come with behavioural challenges due to past experiences. Whilst seeing a rescue dog come out of its shell can be the most rewarding experience, it's important to acknowledge that a lot of patience and willingness is required. Are you ready to work through potential issues and provide the support your new furry friend needs?
9. The emotional investment
Welcoming a dog into your life is not just a physical commitment but an emotional one too. If you have a rescue dog that requires a lot of your patience and love, the emotional toll can be huge (on you, your relationships and sometimes your bank balance). Dogs become a part of the family, and whilst it's not nice to think about, part of that bond is the potential for heartache when they pass away.
Adopting a dog can be a life-changing experience that brings happiness, companionship, and a sense of purpose to your life. However, it's essential to approach the process with a clear understanding of the responsibilities and all the potential challenges it entails. Making an informed decision that benefits both you and your future four-legged friend is the most important thing. Remember, a well-considered decision leads to a happier and longer-lasting relationship for everyone involved.